“I Will Not Remarry; One Husband Is Enough” — Former First Lady Aisha Buhari

Former First Lady, Aisha Buhari, has said she does not plan to remarry following the death of her husband, former President Muhammadu Buhari.

According to reports, Aisha Buhari made this known in a new 600-page biography titled From Soldier to Statesman: The Legacy of Muhammadu Buhari, written by Dr. Charles Omole. The book was unveiled at the State House in Abuja on Monday, December 15, 2025.

In the book, Aisha Buhari’s decision is described as a personal and practical choice rather than a moral statement. It notes that she feels one marriage was enough and that she now has grandchildren to focus on. The biography explains that her stance avoids cultural expectations that often label widows as either betrayers for remarrying or saints for remaining single.

The book also sheds light on her plans for the future. According to the author, Aisha Buhari intends to live a quieter public life, dividing her time between her family, charity work, and travel. She plans to spend more time with her grandchildren so they can remember her as an active part of their childhood, not just a distant public figure.

In addition, she will continue to run the Aisha Buhari Foundation and oversee the cardiovascular and medical centre in Kano, which has already carried out over 200 medical procedures. The biography states that she will keep supporting humanitarian causes while stepping away from active political life.

Dr. Omole described her decision as a personal reset after many years in the political spotlight, noting that she has chosen to step back and allow others take centre stage.

The book also reflects on her marriage, describing it as both a source of strength and difficulty. While it gave her a platform to express her views, it also exposed her to criticism and exclusion within political spaces.

Muhammadu Buhari married Aisha Buhari (née Halilu) on December 2, 1989, following his divorce in 1988. Born in 1971 in Adamawa State, Aisha became Nigeria’s First Lady in 2015 when Buhari returned to power. The couple were married for 35 years and had five children together.

Former President Muhammadu Buhari passed away on July 13, 2025, at the age of 82.