In a recent statement, Nollywood actress Toyin Adegbola, also known as Toyin Tomato, offered advice to married women regarding their relationships. Speaking in Yoruba, she urged women to remain in their marriages despite any difficulties with their husbands. According to Toyin, even if a husband exhibits troubling behavior, women should not consider leaving their matrimonial home. She explained that such decisions could lead to complications later, especially when their children have important events, as men often insist their wives be present.
Toyin further warned that leaving a marriage could result in the woman facing challenges in finding another partner, and might even lead to new issues, including potential infidelity. She advised women to stay in their marital homes and manage their situations wisely. She shared an anecdote about a friend who gives her husband condoms when he travels, suggesting that women should use strategic measures to protect themselves while maintaining their marriages.
Additionally, Toyin encouraged men to view their wives as their "firstborn," paralleling how women often see their husbands. She noted that despite men's self-perception of wisdom, they can be naive in relationships, and it is crucial for women to manage their marriages with intelligence and patience.
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